Meredith Grey (narration): There's a saying we hear a lot around hospitals... that goes like this... "Pain is inevitable. Suffering is optional." It didn't work. But I doubt the person who coined it ever went through major surgery. It didn't work. Or maybe they didn't mean physical pain. Maybe they meant the other kind... the worse kind. Maybe they meant the kind of searing, seething, boiling pain that tells you you're a failure and a fraud. "Suffering is optional." That person didn't know what the f... they were talking about.